Treating Psychological Causes of Sexual Dysfunction
Is your cock not responding the way you want it to?
Your cock may be having a functional response to a dysfunctional situation. I care about you, your cock and your experience as you navigate flirting, consent, escalation, seduction and sex so you feel confident enough to fuck your partner's brains out from across a table and between the sheets.
There are a lot of causes of sexual performance issues which may need medical attention which you should rule out with your Doctor first. I address the psychological obstacles in your way of trusting yourself to let go and enjoy. One question many Doctors ask that can be very telling if a cause of dysfunction is psychological or physical is; Do you have the same difficulties when you're getting off on your own? If not, most likely current barriers are psychological causes. I help with those emotional patterns such as performance anxiety, self worth, identity, interpersonal dynamics of a relationship, emotional intimacy capacity and many others. Most of these can be eased through navigating emotional and sexual intimacy in a therapeutic setting.
I'm Ashley, a Sex & Intimacy Coach and Intimacy Surrogate, certified as a Sex Educator by the American College of Sexologists International, as a SomaticaⓇ Sex and Relationship Coach and by Damiana Chi, Ph.D. as a Dominatrix, specializing in sexual performance and emotional intimacy. I’ve worked with many individuals and partners for the past few years and now have found a niche in working with men to unlocking the mystery of their sexual concerns. So many have left my office with the confidence to flirt, seduce, get hard, stay hard, last longer and enjoy new depths of sexual satisfaction and connection.
The work of experiential and somatic methods includes building real emotional connection, flirtation, touch and arousal. We navigate and re-wire your barriers to connection and pleasure that arise as we develop intimacy together. This tactile approach allows us to directly access and in real time experience, heal and change patterns that are preventing you from following your pleasure in sex and intimacy. Have you ever had a female friend you could talk with about your emotional needs, your sexual desires and practice connection, flirting and seduction with?
For an idea of what a first session can look like, please read my published article .
I see clients in the Los Angeles area and online. For more information please visit:
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I had the pleasure of being a small part of this wonderful person's journey of taking his bull by the horns. Listen to his powerful and relatable story of finding his sexual, masculine animal and power of giving pleasure.
"There are so many amazing things to say about Ashley! She is so comforting, and lets you put all your insecurities out in the air with out judgement at all! Even after just one session everything we worked on made me feel so much more confident! Not only does she help on a sexual level but she is also so helpful on a personal level as well. She was so easy to talk to it is almost as if the words just started coming out haha! I would highly recommend going to see Ashley for any insecurity or even if you just want to up your game behind closed doors!"
"I have experienced difficulty with relationships and when my marriage had hit rock bottom. I felt like a failure, dealt with anxiety, and insecurities for most of my life. Ashley is truly an incredible person! She is an expert at what she does and I can say without hesitation that I felt better, and more confident in myself after each session I had with her. She is kind, sweet, down to earth, and very respectful. Most importantly, she always made me feel comfortable and helped me to realize I have the potential to have the kind of relationships I want. She helped me to remove the negative mental blocks in my thinking and helped me to realize I know how to be intimate, sexy, and be confident in myself. I recommend Ashley to help anyone with their dating, love, and intimacy coaching needs!"
"I have had deep traumatic experience with women throughout my life. Starting with my mom, then babysitter, fellow peers in school, and even the only two girlfriends I've had in the past. So many women hurt me, so I was afraid of them. Afraid of women. Afraid of being hurt. I have not had a relationship with a woman for over 11 years. I've only had sex only three times in my life.That is where I was coming from to seek coaching and healing from Ashley. She was so calming and welcoming. She listened to me, truly listened, and never interrupted me. She respected my past discussions, she understood me, and felt deep empathy for me. She showed me how to be vulnerable to her and in turn how to be vulnerable and safe with others. I also never conceived myself as being attractive, let alone think others would find me attractive. Ashley made me realize that I AM sexy. And damn handsome too. I didn't know how to be sexy at all at first. But she taught me, and it was easy to learn. I was shown that I had known how to be sexy all along, I just had to learn how to tap into it. Ashley is so amazing with what she does. She changed my life for the better. I now have the knowledge and confidence I need to find the woman I want to love forever. And I'm not afraid of the few women I may encounter along the way, and that it is fine to enjoy the journey. I do not need to feel ashamed of my sexuality. Ashley is so wonderful and she made me feel wonderful as well. She will make you feel the same."